Auto-detect used to pick the first Espressif device, even when it did
not match IDF_TARGET. With several boards attached, flash/monitor could
talk to the wrong chip.
Pass the project target into esptool so unmatched ports are skipped.
Resolve the port after ensure_build_directory() so the target is known.
For monitor on an unconfigured project, probe the connected chip and
pass it directly to idf_monitor without configuring the project.
