fix: connect to peers that advertise to you

src/receive_imf.rs

@@ -1433,7 +1433,8 @@ async fn add_parts(
                 let relay_server = node_addr.relay_url().map(|relay| relay.as_str());
                 let topic = get_iroh_topic_for_msg(context, instance_id).await?;
                 iroh_add_peer_for_topic(context, instance_id, topic, node_id, relay_server).await?;
-
+                let iroh = context.get_or_try_init_peer_channel().await?;
+                iroh.maybe_add_gossip_peers(topic, vec![node_addr]).await?;
                 chat_id = DC_CHAT_ID_TRASH;
             }
             Err(err) => {