fix: Return from dc_get_chatlist(DC_GCL_FOR_FORWARDING) only chats where we can send (#4616)

I.e. exclude from the list the following chats as well:
- Read-only mailing lists.
- Chats we're not a member of.

But as for ProtectionBroken chats, we return them, as that may happen to a verified chat at any
time. It may be confusing if a chat that is normally in the list disappears suddenly. The UI need to
deal with that case anyway.

(cherry picked from commit 83ef25e7de)

src/chat.rs

@@ -1241,13 +1241,14 @@ impl Chat {
     pub(crate) async fn why_cant_send(&self, context: &Context) -> Result<Option<CantSendReason>> {
         use CantSendReason::*;
 
+        // NB: Don't forget to update Chatlist::try_load() when changing this function!
         let reason = if self.id.is_special() {
             Some(SpecialChat)
         } else if self.is_device_talk() {
             Some(DeviceChat)
         } else if self.is_contact_request() {
             Some(ContactRequest)
-        } else if self.is_mailing_list() && self.param.get(Param::ListPost).is_none_or_empty() {
+        } else if self.is_mailing_list() && self.get_mailinglist_addr().is_none_or_empty() {
             Some(ReadOnlyMailingList)
         } else if !self.is_self_in_chat(context).await? {
             Some(NotAMember)